From HotAir, a reminder that we live in a new age,
Bare midriffs and piercings apparently haven’t made teenagers provocative enough to compete with celebrities for local attention. According to the University of Minnesota, teenage girls have begun using personal-networking technology to send nude pictures of themselves to their friends, emulating the sexualization they see in the national media.
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Gee, I wonder where teenage girls get the idea that they have to shed their clothes for attention? It didn’t start with Miley Cyrus; Brooke Shields made an unforgettable commercial almost 30 years ago at the age of 15, saying, “You want to know what comes between me and my Calvins? Nothing.” The sexualization of teens and pre-teens continues today with the execrable Bratz Girls dolls and a national media that cannot let children have a childhood.
Several weeks ago I commented on a post at Virtue Alert, a blog maintained by author Vicki Courtney, which had to do with another case similar to that referenced above. While the post rightly addressed the issue of inappropriate photos being sent via cellphones, I thought the attitude Courtney expressed regarding teenage indiscretions was a bit too flippant. Reference the following excerpt from her post,
Now, take a minute to think back to your own days of youth... Maybe you were in the .00000001 percent of the population that made it to your 18th birthday without being exposed to a game or two of "Truth or Dare" or participating in a skinny-dipping session in your best friend's pool. Hats off to you if that's the case. Now, for the rest of us,...
In my comment I wrote,
Do you really believe that essentially 100% of the people out there, as teenagers, went skinny-dipping in their friend's pool? Maybe some research on how different personality types respond to peer pressure is in order. As for myself, I was (and still am) never the type to blindly follow whatever the crowd was doing, much less do whatever was "truth or dared" of me (and, no, I have never participated in that game, or skinny-dipped in a friend's pool).
Courtney responded, evidently thinking I was simply questioning the numerical value she had listed. Courtney's attitude was reiterated by another commenter who stated,
...I had to get a little kick out of Rusty's comment, bless his heart. I knew you were being tongue and cheek in saying things, however many of us (be honest girls...did the truth or dare or skinny dipping things when we were young, (Sorry Rusty.)... (emphasis added)
I wrote and submitted a response which, for reasons unknown, did not get published at Courtney's blog. Unfortunately, I did not copy the text I submitted, but the following is an approximation of my comment,
I wasn't picking nits with the actual decimal point value you stated - I realize that you were being tongue in cheek. What I take issue with is the notion, which I infer from your tongue in cheek remark, that most, if not all of us, have engaged in the types of acts exemplified by the playing of "truth or dare", or of skinny-dipping in a friend's pool. What I gather is that you're implying, "let's be real - we've all engaged in this behavior", and that seems to be further reinforced by Anonymous' comment, "Let's be honest, girls". So, if I'm to follow Anonymous' logic, were one of the "girls" out there to disagree with her, then said girl would be... dishonest? In other words, if any adult claims to not have engaged in the abovementioned activities, then said adult is being dishonest (i.e., lying). This is, in fact, the type of response I've sometimes received when I mention that I never got drunk in college (or in my life, for that matter - sorry Anonymous) despite the fact that I lived 200+ miles away from home while at university (thereby providing me with ample opportunity to "sow my oats" if I so desired).
I think that rather than approach the topic of this post with a "we've all been there" so "let's be honest" mindset, perhaps it would be more prudent to teach humility, self-respect, dignity of action, abstinence (in multiple areas), integrity, self-control, and independence, to name just a few virtues. What type of impact do you think that would have on the next generation, and their children? Imagine the impact it would have on a child, upon asking her parents, to find out that they did not engage in foolish acts when young. Imagine actually taking the book of Proverbs seriously for what it is - a guidebook from God on how to live life.
While Courtney is to be commended for bringing such issues to light, I think we've really got to get beyond the Nobody's Perfect mentality, where we're all being honest and not being judgmental. How about being truly honest and righteously judgmental? Let's not only teach that virtuous actions are morally right and attainable, but that non-virtuous actions are... wrong.
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